This topic holds a special place in my heart, and I believe it resonates with many in the SW community. As clients, there are numerous ways you can enrich the escort experience for both of us. From a personal perspective, having experienced moments of sheer bliss, I can attest that enhancing the encounter is not only possible but imperative. Let me share insights from my journey on how you can elevate our time together, creating unforgettable experiences on every date.
Be Respectful:
Respect boundaries, preferences, and personal space at all times. Treat us with kindness and dignity, and refrain from engaging in behaviour that may make us uncomfortable. This may sound obvious, but it’s not always the case. That’s why I’m listing it as number 1. Boundaries should always be respected; this goes both ways.
Respect Privacy & Discretion:
Respect privacy and discretion by maintaining confidentiality and refraining from discussing intimate details of your encounters with others. This applies to online discussions as well as in person. Trust and discretion are essential for building a respectful and trusting relationship. Would you want her to discuss details of your intimate encounter with others? Didn’t think so. Your encounter is meant to be a safe place, so respect it as such.
Fully Engage:
Be fully present and engaged during the encounter, giving her your undivided attention. Put away distractions such as phones or other devices and focus on connecting with us on a deeper level. In my dates, I require electronics be put away for safety reasons, but even if such a policy is not required, put them away anyways. Designate that time to her. This includes active listening, complimenting, asking questions, etc. When you seem interesting, we’ll want to see you again! Prioritize building a genuine connection with her beyond the physical aspect. Engage in meaningful conversations, share experiences, and cultivate a sense of intimacy and understanding to enrich the overall experience. Take the initiative to plan activities or outings that you both enjoy. Whether it’s a romantic dinner, a cultural event, a museum date, a hockey game, a baseball game, a concert or Bluesfest (for example) etc., thoughtful planning can add excitement and create lasting memories.
Show Generosity:
Show generosity in both actions and gestures. Consider surprising her with thoughtful gifts, tipping, or treating her to experiences that she enjoys. Exploring different types of activities to enhance intimacy and connection gets us excited! Being thoughtful goes a long way! When you remember things we’ve posted about on Twitter/ Insta, we genuinely appreciate it! Show you care by doing some digging and take us to our favourite restaurant, buy us something we’ve had our eyes on from our wishlist, tip us! Planning (a simple google search of ‘Ideas for creating memorable and enjoyable experiences with escorts’ or something of the sort) will do you in well. These are some ideas to get in our good books 🙂
By embracing these practices, you as a client can contribute to creating a mutually enjoyable and fulfilling experience with each provider you see, fostering a sense of connection, respect, and appreciation.